I remember sometime ago when I was developing into a woman, there was this day I saw myself having a passionate, and pleasurable hot sex in the dream ...Yeah, you read that correctly, but the little difference back then was that just like you I was stunned. At first I found myself praying and scaboshing because I was totally confused and felt like it was a spiritual attack, the funny part was even while I was awake and still praying I still had that funny sensation. Guys I was super horny. So I went online to check if I was indeed okay or I needed a medical check up or worse still i needed to speak with a sex therapist which we hardly have here in Nigeria. Then I found out according to my research that there was absolutely nothing wrong with me, I mean no spiritual attack or abnormality, it was just my body and hormones that was passing a message across to me that I was growing, (Weird right?) .
Recently while reminiscing on the event that took its course that day, it doned on me that alot of people have gone through the same phase or is currently going through the same process and have totally mishandled the whole situation. If you'd agree with me that sex education is a scarce commodity in this part of the continent we live especially amongst parent to their kids and at times even teenagers to teenagers and these are the little factors we ignore that leads into maturation, early sex and unwanted pregnancy and the likes.
So, journey with me as we look into some healthy tips that helps control *Sexual Urge*. NB: This article is directed to people who sincerely don't want to have premarital sex and wants to keep their bodies till you know the right time, under the right weather condition, with the right person.. Yassssss😜. Let's dive in.
Tip 1: Get yourself Distracted/Busy.
Create a schedule for your day to day activities and try to stick to it, hence leave no room for idleness except you are done with the days work as the saying goes an idle mind is the devils workshop. This will help you get more focused at what you're doing and achieve your set goal without no waste of time. Also, you can listen to edifying and inspirational music, books, movies or try out new things you've always wanted to do that's outside dwelling on how your body is reacting at the moment.
Tip 2: Avoid Staying alone by yourself.
I've come to realize that our mind is the greatest tool that influences our actions. Whatever happens in our reality has most likely been processed in our mind except in rare cases.It has been discovered that not every individual is capable of controlling their minds , in most cases its the vice versa. Weather or not you fall into this category, it's advisable to surround yourself with people who won't nurture those thoughts and voices in your head. Also, be careful to not be alone with the opposite sex who would help power your thought into reality as that might be your doom.
Tip 3: Face your Fears:
Have it in your head that your spirit is principal in you and that both your body and everything that dwells there in inclusive of your mind Is subject and a dependant to it. This will help you realize how to process your thoughts even in your subconscious state. Plus be intentional about it. If you're a true believer, just like I did, you can decide to speak in tongues each time you start to feel funny or research and dive into scriptural verses that reveals the true identity of your body and how to treasure it. *Rom 12 verse 1, 1Corinth 16 VS 19, Rom 12 VS 2, 1Corinth 3 VS 16-17*.
Tip 4. Get Help.
You should probably check out similar articles like this online to help you control and power your thoughts as mostly everything is narrowed down to the thought and mindset. You can also get help by praying . GOD has the keys and code of conduct to our bodies and hormones and he is ever ready to help with everything that powers it. because he is the maker of it all.
Tip 5: Guard your heart.
It is true we can't control everything we come across in our day to day activities like the people we meet, the things we see on social media, movies, songs, books and the likes, but is very possible to walk away or hit the scroll or delete botton from those things and those people for a healthy thought and a peaceful mindset as the heart and mind is a very fragile and delicate place you can't afford to mess up.
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Peace out✌️
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